改善你的拍拖, 約會技巧, 讓你可與心宜對象交往
為香港男女而設的約會拍拖技巧課程
助你尋找女朋友或者妻子
助你尋找男朋友或者丈夫
學懂更容易和更快速地找到合適的伴侶
你可等待命運, 神, 幸運或者信念把你的白馬王子或白雪公主帶到你面前。
你亦可為你的孤單找來很多藉口: 真命天子或真命天女未出現, 他們不是適合我的類型, 我冇時間, 我要應付考試和工作, 我醜, 肥, 失業, 有病, 窮和愚蠢。
還是改變你的負面想法提升你的心理狀態, 自我反思和站在另一角度去想, 學習新技巧, 花多一點時間認識新朋友, 使自己能夠成為一個更有魅力的人。
透過自我提升訓練, 改進的不僅是約會技巧, 還有你的工作態度, 事業, 人際關係, 自信心, 情緒, 戰略思想, 意識, 健康, 心靈和你生活的其他方面。
例如成功的約會和成功的應徵是十分相似。 你需要成功推銷你自己, 讓另一方喜歡你, 信任你和接受你, 你需要表現出自己出類拔萃和合群。
透過訓練你可讓自己成為更有才華的人, 更有價值, 更受到尊重的人, 成為有魅力並且得到你想要的。 .
全程以英語教授,藉以提升英語。
這不是約會或婚姻介紹所, 故不會為你介紹伴侶。
這是一對一或者小組教授.
約會,"溝仔","溝女",拍拖技巧與概念。
你可從課程中學到有關約會,拍拖概念和技巧. 例如:
拍拖技巧
適當的擇偶時機
如何接近你的理想對像
如何切合對方
挑逗
建立舒適氣氛和信任
身體語言
閃電約會
打開話匣子, 開場白
在酒吧中尋找對像
自行創造機會
約會心態
增強自信心
學習不斷提升自己; 選擇適當的生活
適合精神狀態, 正確價值觀
接受不確定,建立確實的
區分主觀的, 現實的
幻想式的約會
自信還是自負
社交技巧, 人際網絡
將自己重新定位
提升魅力
調情和挑逗
保持神秘或者開放
動物原始本性 求偶本能
創造期望和驚喜
創造情感高潮起伏
男性 VS 女性如何互相吸引
困惑抑或逃避
建立更密切關係
網上約會
建立一個吸引人的個人檔案
如何使用照片
宜談論什麼,不宜談論什麼
網上調情
由網上交談轉化為電話,直到會面
男性專區
改變女性的反抗情緒, 微小的阻力
如果處理"不如我們先做朋友"
了解女性的自我保護
如何處理她說 "我有男朋友"
做個成熟的男人
女性專區
如何將男性慾望轉化為浪漫的事
如何抓住男人的心
"男人只要性"
主動出擊
享受彼此的時間而非操縱對方,期望承諾或者活在童話中的愛, 尊重和信任
溝通技巧
溝通內容
暗示 - 言外之意
言詞背後的含義 打開有趣的話題
身體語言:站立,企,行路,座姿
透過眼神接觸,聲音,氣味,身體接觸和距離
演講技巧
小組對話
故事式敍事技巧
如何處理約會和拍拖時產生的相關情緒和壓力
了解情緒和壓力的真正兇手
情緒作用
趕走焦慮
如何處理被拒绝
乞求被愛
分手, 拒絕, 孤獨, 寂寞
Improve your dating skills and get that guy or girl
Dating course in Hong Kong for men and women
This dating skills course helps:
men who are looking for a girlfriend or a wife and
women who are seeking a boyfriend or a husband
to learn how to get a better partner easier and faster.
You can wait for destiny, god, good luck or faith to bring in front of you Mr Right or Ms Right.
You can also find excuses why you are alone: not enough eligible men or women, they are not good quality, I have no time, I have exams and work, I am ugly, fat, unemployed, sick, poor and stupid.
Or you can take charge of your love life and start to upgrade your mindset, you thinking about yourself and the opposite sex, learn new skills, spend more time to meet people and make yourself a more capable and attractive lady or guy.
This self-improvement dating skills coaching will help you not only with your dating results but also with your career, business, relationships, self-confidence, emotional life, strategic thinking, consciousness, health, physical shape and all other aspects of your life.
For example, success in dating and in a job interview situation requires similar skills. You need to be a great person and you need to present yourself so that the other party likes you, trusts you and accepts you. You need to be competitive and co-operative.
I am not a PUA or pick-up artist and my objective is not training pick up artists.
During this dating skills training you can make yourself a more capable, respected person who has valuable skills, charming personality and get what you want.
The dating skills course is available in English so it is also a good language practicing opportunity.
It is not a dating or matchmaking service. No potential girlfriends or boyfriends will be introduced to you.
It is personal coaching on one-to-one or for small groups in a classroom.
Dating concepts, techniques and skills
There are numerous dating concepts, techniques and skills we are going to talk about and learn during the course. Here are some:
Dating skills and techniques
the courtship phases
approaching and soliciting approaches
qualifying and disqualifying oneself and the partner
sending and receiving indicators of interest
building comfort and trust
physical escalation - kino
instant dating and time bridge
situation based vs. canned openers
meeting in bars and clubs
creativity in dating situations
Dating mindset
investigating own beliefs and getting rid of those that do not serve you
continuously upgrading yourself; learning and experimenting
being congruent
mental models, values and meaning
accepting uncertainty vs carving for certainty
distinguishing the sources of our knowledge: sensing physical reality vs. mentally creating subjective reality (that is, stories)
myths about dating
self-confidence and self-esteem
social programming
replacing scarcity mentality with the abundance one
Mind Optimization - for dating and relationships
Based on the teacher's bilingual book
Creating attraction
flirting and teasing
being mysterious vs opening up
animal mating instinct and social courtship programming
creating expectations and surprise
creating emotional waves: pull and push
male vs female attraction values and patterns
creating confusion, being evasive
building and breaking rapport to amplify attraction
Online dating
writing an attractive profile
how to use photos
what to talk and don't talk about
online flirting
transition from chatting to phone and to meeting
Specific topics for men
managing women's last minute resistance in an intimate situation
handling "let's just be friends"
understanding the bitch shield
what to do when you get "I have a boyfriend"
being a mature man
Specific topics for women
transforming male sexual energy and desire into romantic affection
how to keep the guy
"men just want sex"
being initiative and proactive
focusing on creating mutual enjoyment rather than observing the man, expecting commitment or thinking in abstract categories like love, respect, trust
Communication
the content and context of communication
meta-communication - meanings behind the words
making interesting conversations
body language: standing, moving, sitting and setting energy level
communicating with eyes, voice, fragrant, touch and distance
presentation skills
talking to a group of people
story telling for conveying personality
Managing dating and relationship related emotions and stress
understanding the real cause of emotions and stress
the functions of emotions
approach anxiety
interpreting and managing rejection
neediness and carving for approval
breakup, rebound, loneliness
